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What does it mean if you don't go back to your mother's house on the second day of junior high school

DailyBird Culture 2021-10-08 1 0

after people get married, generally speaking, they will live with their husbands. Or away from their parents. But when the Spring Festival comes, the married daughter always needs to go back to her mother's house. At this time, you can also express your thoughts and enhance the relationship between them with your parents, but you should pay attention to returning to your mother's house.

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what does it mean to go back to your mother's house? In fact, it is also called going back to your mother's house in northern China. It is a distinctive custom of the Han nationality at the age of. Every year on the second and third days of the first month, the married daughter will go back to her mother's house, and the husband and son-in-law will go together. Therefore, it is commonly known as welcoming the son-in-law day. On this day, the married daughter went back to her mother's house to visit and even stay. After her daughter gets married, she has to do housework in her mother-in-law's house, serve her mother-in-law, and deal with all kinds of sister-in-law and aunt-in-law relations. Therefore, her mother's family will take her daughter home for a few days during the festival. It is called visiting relatives, but in fact, she has a rest. However, it expresses the traditional psychology of the working people of the Han nationality who generally hope to leave the old and welcome the new and welcome a better life in the new year. It reflects the affection is very strong, the real is "courtesy light, affection heavy", the girl's deep longing for her family. What do you need to pay attention to when you go back to your mother's house? You should bring gifts when you go home on this day, which is called carrying hands or accompanying hands. A large bag of biscuits and candy must be prepared and distributed by the mother to the neighbors, just like the scene of the Chinese New Year. If there are more than one daughter in the family, and these daughters do not return on the same day, they will come once. The gift is quite thin, just four biscuits. However, it reflects a strong affection. The real thing is that "etiquette is light and affection is heavy". It expresses the girl's yearning for the villagers. When the girl came home, if she had a nephew, she had to pay for it again. Although she had given the lucky money on the first day of the new year, it meant different this time.


what's the impact of not going back to your mother's house on the second day of the first month? There is a custom of going back to your mother's house on June 6 in Northern Shaanxi. It is said that it is to contact the feelings between in laws. At that time, your mother's house will invite your daughter and son-in-law to come back for reunion. Henan also has this custom, but it is related to the season of wheat harvest. A popular rumor says, "after the wheat harvest, the girl of the family will not look at her mother. If the girl doesn't look at her mother, her father-in-law will die if she doesn't die." the same is true on the second day of the first month, because it's the Spring Festival. Returning to her mother's house at this time also expresses the yearning of both sides.

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